A whim away

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Heavy Facebook Users Are Narcissistic and Insecure

People who can't stop logging onto Facebook are narcissistic, insecure and suffer from low self-esteem.

Researchers from York University quizzed 100 students between the ages of 18 and 25 on how often they checked out Facebook. The students also took a psychological test that measured their level of narcissism. The York team found that the more a person clicked onto their own Facebook page, the higher they scored for narcissism.

The same test revealed that those who can't get enough of Facebook also suffer from insecurity and low-self esteem, which are traits often tied to narcissism.

The problem here is Facebook is just too damn self-affirming. We're pretty sure that if they finally added a universal "dislike" button, Facebook would cease to be such a cyber-swamp for narcissistic/insecure types.

http://www.asylum.com/2010/09/10/york-university-facebook-users-are-narcissistic-and-insecure
 
Just more reasons to stop facebooking. I deactivated my account on May 15th 2010 and I will be re-activating it after exams...or when I feel like it.

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Visual Prompt / Stimulus Material

Complete an extended written response in expository, imaginative or persuasive style. Your writing must draw directly from at least one selected text for this Context and explore-

Visual Prompt 1:


Visual Prompt 2:





Sunday, October 10, 2010

2 more mondays to go:

what you like in a guy:


































1. brown hair  black hair  blonde hair  red hair

2. taller  short  same height as you

3. ear piercings  eyebrow piercings  snake bites  no piercings other

4. tattoos  no tattoos idgaf

5. skater  punk  player  indie cowboy musician prep jock other

6. shy  outgoing  in between

7. mellow  hyper loud quiet

8. blue eyes  brown eyes  green eyes

9. wears tight jeans  straight skinny jeans  wears normal jeans  sweatpants

10. converse  vans  nikes  skate shoes  other

11. listens to: metal  rap  indie  classic rock  country  all  other

12. compliments too much  compliments when necessary

13. jokes around all the time  jokes when necessary

14. sensitive  hides emotion  acts tough

15. hobbies: computer  music  skating  sports  drawing  fishing  other

16. loves to hold  loves to be held

17. tons of muscles  fit  skinny  chubbyish

18. pale  average  tan  dark

19. cusses a lot  never cusses  moderately cusses  only cusses around friends

20. wavy hair  curly hair  straight hair  long hair  longish hair  short hair

Saturday, October 9, 2010

analyse.

Based on a Psychological Study, CRUSH only lasts for a minimum of 4 months. If it exceeds, you are already in love.

behind the seams





If I were to master my drawing skills just like the sketches above, I would love to start my own tumblr on fashion sketching. Maybe in my past life, I was an artist. I've won four awards in drawing competitions (3 2nd place, 1 3rd place) in my childhood years. My chinese school teacher offered me drawing classes and I aced Art. Hehe, drawing is one of my favourite past times. Can't wait to get back to it in the summer.

"she said to me"

i can feel your heartbeat, i can feel your heartbeat.
"Heartbeat" - Enrique Iglesias ft Nicole Scherzinger
(sexy beats are addictive)

I couldn't help re-read the timetable for the last day of school and relieve the feelings when I read my timetable for the first day of highschool. Six years have passed so soon, I wonder what the next six will bring for me? I do hope I have a career in Neurology though, and a handsome partner to come along with too. From the moment you pinned your XII badge on your uniform to signing the forms for allowing your ATAR to be published, you know that your time at highschool is nearly over. In the adult future though, highschool will seem to be a small proportion of your entire life span so far. Even your ATAR score won't be the talk of everyone by then. It'll be your income instead.

Why can't we measure our success whether intelligence or wealth on happiness instead? This year has broken many students down in tears, distress and utter dissapointment. You feel compressed, the weight on your shoulders is incredible. Broken down psychologically and physically by the sleepless nights, this was VCE for me and I'm tired. Everyone is. Down to our final weeks now and I'm left with regrets, so how could I face Jp in the eye and say that everything is okay right now? I've been made to feel that four digits will determine the prospect of your whole future. I've let it consume me, restrict my happiness and hope within myself.

I can't dwell on the past for too long, we all have to learn from our mistakes and focus on achieving the best possible marks on our exams. We have to keep trying, it is not complete failure if we haven't tried. Giving up is the worst thing you can do. Decemeber will be daunting.


Friday, October 8, 2010

psychology with jp



"So you're just going to ignore him for a whole month?"

"Yeah.
I have this habit of running away from him and leaving him (fb, formal, msn)
...but he comes back"


(maybe)


this.
 



R U OK?

jp asked me if I was okay today.

I couldn't look her in the eye. I am not okay.

:(

i'm angry at myself, i regret not loving jp more

i am a horrible wife who doesn't appreciate jp's support towards me. i never let him do anything he wants because i am a totalitarian figure in her life.

i have an unhealthy force to destroy all humanity.

2+2 = 5

jp, how many fingers am i holding up?

"2"

WRONG

i am not cooking you anything, not that i cooked for you in the first place
i am not your housewife.

we have maids.

i'll tell them not to cook for you and if you want to eat, you will go out and eat instead. take my purse. theres $58, i want a ...

JP INTERRUPTS.

I AM NOT YOUR HOUSEWIFE.

WE HAVE MAIDS.

ahem, i was saying, i want a dinner box.
get me a salad and i'll think you think i'm fat.

NO. "CAUSE YOU'RE AMAZING JUST THE WAY YOU ARE." :D

awww...."the dj's got us falling in love again ayoooo"

Tuesday, October 5, 2010